(3-13-20) From My Files Friday – In late 2016, I posted a blog about retired Air Force Brigadier General Gary Ambrose who’d received an award for leadership and advocacy in my home state of Virginia. During his acceptance speech, the general spoke eloquently about his son, Brad. The general continued to advocate after receiving the award, overseeing the jail diversion program in Fairfax.
“Our full time mission became keeping him safe and alive.”
by Gary Ambrose:
Like many others, our family became mental health advocates by necessity.
We were advocates for Brad, who, for 17 years, lived with paranoid schizophrenia and the voices that urged him to take his own life.
Brad was intelligent, articulate, well-read, and charismatic. We shared a sense of humor. Of course, we loved him. But more than that– we liked him. He was our son, but he was also a friend. During “good times,” when he was medication compliant, he was a pleasant companion.
He was a peer mentor in the NAMI Peer To Peer program and the first chairman of the Mental Health Subcommittee of the Fairfax County Re-entry Council. In the spring of 2014, he was the first person with mental illness to be highlighted on Channel 4’s “Changing Minds” segment. He was passionate about improving life for people with mental illness.
He had potential.
But, he had also spent many of the 17 years of his illness cycling through the healthcare and legal systems, and was, much of the time, a danger to himself.
Brad’s illness took him from us in 2014.