Photo of Brad Ambrose from NBC Channel 4’s Changing Minds series.
(11-9-16) Gary Ambrose, a retired Air Force brigadier general, recently received the Gartlan Award for Leadership and Advocacy in Virginia. I was asked to say a few words about General Ambrose’s many accomplishments, but it was his speech about his son, Brad, that deeply touched listeners.
Like many others, our family became mental health advocates by necessity.
We were advocates for our son and brother, Brad, who, for 17 years, lived with paranoid schizophrenia and the voices that urged him to take his own life.
Brad was intelligent, articulate, well-read, and charismatic. We shared a sense of humor. Of course, we loved him. But more than that– we liked him. He was our son, but he was also a friend. During “good times,” when he was medication compliant, he was a pleasant companion.
He was a peer mentor in the NAMI Peer To Peer program and the first chairman of the Mental Health Subcommittee of the Fairfax County Re-entry Council. In the spring of 2014, he was the first person with mental illness to be highlighted on Channel 4’s “Changing Minds” segment. He was passionate about improving life for people with mental illness.
He had potential.
But, he had also spent many of the 17 years of his illness cycling through the healthcare and legal systems, and was, much of the time, a danger to himself.
Brad’s illness took him from us in 2014.